Seconds anyone?

Along the lines of my post about the stage five clingers, there are the people who necessarily don’t cling – but instead randomly hit you up for a second helping. And by randomly, I mean a month or more after your first date or the let’s see what they can do, no strings attached sex…

Two in one night

Now, now. Don’t get all judge-y. I love sex, but the title of this post doesn’t mean I had sex with two guys in one night. Gotta draw the line somewhere. Read on, friends… I had plans with some girlfriends. One of which was in town from afar for the weekend. We wanted to go…

Once you go black…

You’ve all heard the phrase. I don’t even need to finish it for you. Much to the chagrin of all the other races out there, it usually is true about what they say. For me it’s held true 99.9 per cent of the time. I have dated men who are not black over the years,…

Beware of the Stage 5 Clinger

If you need me to explain this term, you haven’t experienced it. It’s the person who just won’t give up, won’t stop texting or calling. A little over zealous in their attempts to keep the communication going and wants to see you every day or night. If you haven’t experienced this, but it still sounds…

Joe’s in different area codes

You can narrow or broaden your distance in the app settings to show potential matches close to you or up to 160 kilometres away. Well, you can on the free version. I think if you pay a monthly fee you can zoom into different countries! BTW, you are one serious dating dude or woman if…

Pen pals and other weirdos

I have mentioned in previous posts about these dudes. The pen pal and other weirdos, who based on their profiles and pictures, one would think there could be a solid connection. And most times, they don’t show their true selves until it’s too late. Here’s a couple examples of such dudes, all who are –…

The younger guy, part two

I’m still shaking my head for not asking Danny how tall he was. JEEZ! I know you may be thinking this prerequisite is superficial and maybe a bit shallow. But for tall girls, it is a BIG deal. Pun intended. So, I’ve got a few matches I’m still conversing with. A couple of younger dudes…

The younger guy, part one

I’m in my 30’s. I’ve always dated older guys, not even guys my own age. Until recently. But for probably not much longer. Here’s why. You can pick an age range on this dating site, anywhere from 20 to 55+.  I have usually stayed between 35 and up. Until one night, when the profiles I…

Friends with benefits (FWB)

In a world full of acronyms, FWB is probably my favourite. For those of you who may not know what it stands for, it’s friends with benefits. I would hope that everyone has had the opportunity to have such a friend at least once in their lives! You know, the kind of friend that you…

Back in the 6ix

Okay, so I’ve shared my experience with my first two matches while away for work. You’re probably wondering what happens when I get back to the 6ix. Back to reality. Back to my hometown. Here’s how it went. I get back from my trip and it’s almost like I’m addicted to a drug. Chasing that…

Round two

I’m still feeling the high from my first adventure (that’s what we’ll call this for now) and I’m still out of town for at least another four days. So, I plan another vet with one of my other matches. I don’t need as much liquid courage this time. And thankfully, I had packed enough clothing…

The first match

As I mentioned, I was on a business trip. It was in a city where I didn’t know anyone or likely would not be back to, any time soon. What better time to take advantage of this new and exciting adventure, right? I ended up matching and conversing with two or three guys and decided I…